It has been a hot topic of discussion, more lately, but pretty much always. Actually within the month I have had at least 3 people comment to me if i want to date; I need to lower my standards. In the same breath such a person would also say, wow you are an amazing person and deserve the best. If a standard is by definition a level of excellence. Once someone determines their excellence level; why would they lower it?
If I compromise my standards, what some people consider to be the thing holding me back from a relationship. Than I compromise myself. If I am compromised eventually I will seek who I truly am, then what is to come of the relationship that was built based on lower expectations. People, well intelligent people do not sit their children on their
knee and say "shoot for mediocre, kid". Why would the "shoot for the
stars" mindset not apply to relationships.
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